ROCK thru self-doubt to your purpose
by Lee Havenga | October 5, 2023
This week is a pinnacle in my life’s journey—12 months of unwavering commitment to weekly emails, each carrying the transformative power of four life-altering principles. Yet, the true triumph lies not in the relentless consistency, discipline, and sacrifices ensuring a ROCK thru message every Thursday. The victory is the escape from uncertainty that overwhelmed me last year on my 51st birthday when I launched the email series to this moment of celebration that fills my heart with joy.
Back then, fear gripped me, casting shadows on my skills and ability to project a strong, consistent message. Despite knowing the profound contentment and peace the four ROCK thru principles could bring, the inner critic taunted me weekly, whispering, ‘Who do you think you are to share this message?’
Discover Who Your Are
Who am I? I’m a woman who, in her darkest hour, discovered the common thread weaving through hundreds of life philosophies—the four tenets that became ROCK thru. The one who spent years of research validating that these principles weren’t a fluke but a unique, powerful, proven combination. The one who is living proof because anxiety, self-doubt, and perfectionism yielded to confidence and contentment.
Above all, I’m a woman overflowing with gratitude for the friends, family, and readers who believe in me. You champion my passion for these principles and urge me to keep bringing Respect, Ownership, Connection, and Kindness to others to overcome internal struggles and pain.
I’ve found my purpose, and I’m blessed to share it with you. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey. Your support and the conversations inspired by your email replies mean the world to me. Your willingness to share these ideas with others is a gift. I’m deeply indebted to you, and I want you to know that your encouragement allowed me to persevere.
Perseverance reveals purpose
Embarking on the journey to self-discovery and purpose often involves overcoming the hurdles of self-doubt.
The ROCK thru principles—Respect, Ownership, Connection, and Kindness—serve as steadfast guides on this transformative path.
RESPECT
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Respect, the cornerstone, lays the foundation for overcoming self-doubt.
By showing unconditional value for yourself and others, you cultivate a mindset that dismisses doubt and fosters a belief in your worth. To build meaning, respect your journey and acknowledge the strengths that self-doubt may have obscured.
OWNERSHIP
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Ownership empowers you to overcome self-doubt by taking action based on a balanced perspective.
Accepting the truths of a situation, even when uncomfortable, fuels personal growth. To infuse purpose, take ownership of your narrative, learn from challenges, and actively shape your path towards a meaningful life.
CONNECTION
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Building positive, reciprocal bonds through Connection dismantles the isolation that self-doubt often brings.
Knowing you’re not alone and sharing experiences with others nurtures a sense of belonging, minimizing doubt. Connect with those who inspire you and align with your values to find purpose, forging a network that supports and encourages your journey.
KINDNESS
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Kindness, expressed through generous consideration, is a powerful antidote to self-doubt.
Extending kindness to yourself and others creates a positive environment that counteracts doubt’s corrosive effects. To create meaning, practice kindness daily—small gestures can ripple into profound connections, opening your heart and mind to your purpose.
May your journey from self-doubt lead you to the fulfilling embrace of purpose. ROCK thru! XO ~ Lee
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