
ROCK thru to new beauty standards
ABUNDANT LIVING SERIES
by Lee Havenga | February 8, 2024
In a world cluttered with visual noise, superficial judgments, and ‘beauty standards,’ the concept of beauty can seem elusive and exclusive. However, embrace a simple paradigm shift and live in a different world, one of abundant beauty. What if we allow ourselves to feel beauty instead of just seeing it? Suddenly, the vibrant hues of a sunset aren’t ‘pretty’ – they’re awe-inspiring. The laughter of loved ones becomes more than a sound – it becomes the melody of love. And the smell and taste of your morning coffee – safety and comfort. By allowing ourselves to feel beauty, we awaken to the richness and depth of life’s experiences, finding joy and wonder in the most unexpected places.
As we continue the Abundant Living series, we will explore the transformative power of taking Ownership of our perception of beauty, learn how to feel beauty by taking simple, actionable steps, and why it matters more than ever.
Embracing the feeling of beauty is not merely a philosophical exercise; it has tangible benefits for our well-being and perspective on life. When we prioritize feeling beauty, we cultivate a more positive outlook, enhancing our overall mood and resilience in the face of challenges. By experiencing beauty in its many forms, we foster a deeper connection with ourselves, others, and the world around us, leading to greater empathy, compassion, and understanding.
A study by López-Pérez et al. (2020), published in Frontiers in Psychology, sheds light on the profound impact appreciating beauty has on three aspects of life:
- Enhanced Well-Being: The researchers found that individuals who reported higher levels of appreciation for beauty, particularly in nature, also tended to have higher levels of subjective well-being. This suggests that experiencing beauty contributes positively to overall happiness and life satisfaction.
- Increased Meaning in Life: The study revealed a positive correlation between the appreciation of beauty and a sense of meaning in life. This indicates that individuals more attuned to beauty in their surroundings may also perceive greater purpose and significance in their lives.
- Psychological Benefits: Beyond subjective well-being and meaning in life, the study suggests that appreciating beauty may offer additional psychological benefits, such as stress reduction, improved mood, and enhanced resilience in the face of adversity.
Now that we’ve explored the profound benefits of embracing beauty let’s delve into practical steps to cultivate this appreciation and experience beauty in its fullest form.
Look for what lifts your soul, and you will have found true beauty.
OWNERSHIP

Apply it: 6 Steps to Feeling Beauty
Step 1: Take a pause
Begin by taking time to cultivate awareness of your surroundings and your internal state. Set aside a few minutes to deeply notice the sights, sounds, smells, and sensations around you with curiosity and openness. By becoming more attuned to your environment, you can start to recognize moments of beauty that may have previously gone unnoticed.
Step 2: Seek beauty
Challenge yourself to shift your perspective from passive observation to active engagement. Instead of merely going about your day, actively seek out beauty in the everyday moments of life. Look for the extraordinary in the ordinary, finding joy and wonder in the small details and fleeting moments.
Step 3: Expand Your definition
Broaden your definition of beauty beyond visual aesthetics. Recognize that beauty can manifest in various forms, from acts of kindness and expressions of love to moments of the majesty of science and natural phenomena. Most importantly, it’s not about physical appeal but how you feel. If it brings a smile to your face, a warmth over your heart, or a spark of joyful excitement or curiosity, you are experiencing beauty.
Step 4: Engage your senses
Intentionally immerse yourself in sensory experiences to feel beauty on a deeper level. Take time to savor the taste of a delicious meal, feel the sun’s warmth on your skin, and listen to the soothing sounds of nature. By immersing yourself in the present moment, you can amplify your beauty experience and cultivate a greater appreciation.
Step 5: Identify the feeling
Take a moment to intentionally name the positive emotions sparked by the experiences that move your soul. Whether it’s joy, gratitude, awe, or love, acknowledging and labeling these emotions enhances your awareness and appreciation of beauty. By articulating the feelings evoked by beautiful moments, you deepen your connection to them and amplify their impact on your well-being.
Step 6: Curate beauty
Take a moment to intentionally name the positive emotions sparked by the experiences that move your soul. Whether it’s joy, gratitude, awe, or love, acknowledging and labeling these emotions enhances your awareness and appreciation of beauty. By articulating the feelings evoked by beautiful moments, you deepen your connection to them and amplify their impact on your well-being.
In a world inundated with images of perfection and superficiality, the true essence of beauty often gets lost in translation. By making the paradigm shift to prioritize feeling over seeing beauty, we open ourselves to a world of wonder, joy, and meaning. So, let us take Ownership of our perception, embrace the feeling of beauty, and ROCK thru life with a newfound appreciation for the extraordinary in the ordinary.
XO ~ Lee
Source:
López-Pérez, Belén, et al. “Beauty as a Sign of Meaning in Life: Exploring the Relationships Between Beauty, Nature Connectedness, Meaning in Life, and Subjective Well-Being.” Frontiers in Psychology, vol. 11, 2020, doi:10.3389/fpsyg.2020.00219.
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