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Hello! Ready to ROCK thru life?
I’m Lee Havenga, creator of ROCK thru. At the lowest point in my life, I went on a quest to find answers to fill the hole in my soul. During my journey, I learned that living my best life wasn’t as difficult as I thought. I just needed to infuse four simple principles into my attitude and actions: Respect, Ownership, Connection, and Kindness. The ROCK thru principles are part of my everyday life, and my soul is complete and content. Now, I hope to inspire others to do the same. These four principles can help you live your best life, and I’m here to support you.
Let’s ROCK thru together. XO ~ Lee
Want to know more? The rapid-fire Q&A below will quickly get you up to speed. After all, ROCK thru is about keeping it quick and straightforward.
What is ROCK thru?
ROCK thru is a simple way of life based on the wisdom from a collection of research, perspectives, and experiences that strive to teach people how to have meaningful lives. Not surprising, genuine love is the answer to living your best life. But love is as complex as topics come. The combination of these four pillars is a tangible way to love yourself and others:
- Respect: Show each person they are valuable, unconditionally.
- Ownership: Take action based on a balanced perspective of the truth.
- Connection: Create positive, reciprocal bonds.
- Kindness: Demonstrate generous consideration through action.
The first letter of each principle creates the word ROCK, and when you apply all four pillars, you can ROCK thru life.
How is ROCK thru different from the other life approaches?
There are three reasons ROCK thru is a unique approach to life:
1. ROCK thru is not based on just one philosophy.
These four common principles emerged after immersing myself in 100+ life research studies, philosophies, and stories. Unfortunately, our jam-packed days don’t leave us with the time or energy to figure out how to have a meaningful life. But you don’t have to. I’ve already done the work. And when a new book and research comes out, I continue to pressure test the learnings with the ROCK thru framework.
2. ROCK thru is simple.
ROCK thru is based on four principles that are easy to understand. It will take effort to apply like anything with great reward. The more the principles are used, the easier they become. Eventually, they naturally become infused in all aspects of your thinking and behavior.
3. ROCK thru applies to all facets of life.
As the four principles emerged during my research, I noticed how even unique and diverse topics contained the four principles. From tried and true relationship guidance to proven career approaches to best-selling parenting books, Respect, Connection, Ownership, and Kindness were the common threads between them all.
How do I begin to ROCK thru?
ROCK thru is a simple approach to life, not a quick fix. To begin to apply the four principles to your life, start by understanding them. You can start right now by reading this introduction. Then you can begin to apply the principles in small ways throughout your day. The more you use them, the more your circumstances will improve.
The cumulative effect of applying the four pillars to different situations is transformational. You can also read my weekly email to keep the principles at the forefront of your mind and get practical ways to apply them. It’s only 4 minutes to get a nugget of inspiration and application for all 4 principles.
What type of results can I expect when I ROCK thru?
These four principles rescued me from desperation. The transformation from discontent to peace sparked a passion for creating a framework so that I could live with meaning and share this approach with others. You’ll feel more content as you infuse the four principles into your attitudes and actions. Your approach to life will shift. I invite you to join me to approach life in this intentional way to help solve your problems, achieve your dreams, and avoid some challenges altogether.